Understanding handcuffs pleasure and play: Rules of BDSM

Is Fifty Shades of Grey your favorite steamy romance novel? Have you always been curious about a BDSM relationship and thinking about trying it? Handcuffs are a pretty simple and super thrilling way to start when you are a beginner.

With this kind of restraints, you get to know what exactly is ''pleasure and play''. Handcuffs, one of the most trusted beginners' BDSM adult products (성인용품), can take it to a whole new level if you know how to use them correctly and what to do.

Getting the picture

You might think that BDSM involves a lot of pain but no, it's all about the three Ps together, ''pleasure, pain, and play''. Without a little pain, you will never get the true meaning of pleasure, as both these words go together in BDSM. The play part makes things super spicy, interesting, hot, and best! However, it's also important for you to know that any kind of BDSM play depends on effective communication and total trust between two partners.

Before you start to explore, it's a must for you to decide on safe words, boundaries, and consent. Have a detailed discussion with your partner about what exactly turns you on. Talk dirty as it will help you to understand how to create the whole scenario and go as 'planned' later.

Putting the handcuffs and getting into action

There are different kinds of handcuffs available these days, so there is no need to worry about a bruised wrist (of course, until and unless you are actually into pleasure and pain).

Next comes the main part. After purchasing your BDSM sex toy from an illustrious Korean online adult products site (성인용품사이트), set the picture. Make sure you have picked the right position for the restrain. Whether you want the hands to be tied behind the back or to the bedpost or behind the head, it would be completely up to you or your partner's personal preference. Once the position has been set, you can do whatever you want. Oral sex combined with handcuffs is often the favorite of many BDSM lovers. Remember, if you don't go with the tying up to the bedpost option then there are loads of delicious sex positions to try, to get the best orgasms of your life. And, BDSM is all about teasing and waiting.